I just had my second C-section 2 weeks ago. They used forceps this time because bub was so high up. He also has a slight bruise on the side of his cheek but no cuts or anything. Apparently it is not rare to use forceps for c-sections. The obs like to get them out pretty quickly.

My first c-section took a lot longer to get over because I went through labour and then had to have an emergency c-section. This time around was a lot better. I knew what to expect and have healed quickly. I must say though if you decide to have a c-section you will need help at home. You can't reach or hang clothes on the line etc. Just like any other major op.

I was out of bed the next day and of course that did hurt a bit standing up for the first time but I stuck with the pain killers this time and didn't feel that much pain.

Good luck making your decision. It is a very difficult decision.