Hi everyone,

I'd love to hear from other people who are in a similar situation to myself.
I have been with my partner for 7 years We have lived together for the past 3years. We are now pregnant and both very happy about it but I am constantly being asked "So when are you going to get married?" or "You need that commitment"

It ends up stressing me out. Please don't get me wrong I would love to get married but I am also very comfortable and secure with my partner. I feel like I am constantly justifying this to others.

Don't really know why we havent gotten engaged over the years. We always talk about getting married and our future together. The only thing I can put it down to is that my partner and I don't have the best role models for marriage as everyone in both our families are all divorced.

Sorry to be going on a bit..I just don't know how to deal with the pressure. I feel like my mum is planning my wedding when I am not even engaged yet!