We found out with DD, but kept it off the forums and just between DH and I, and for us I am very glad we did it as DH suffered from GD and he took it really hard as he was certain it was a boy...

We will be finding out again this time for the same reason, if it is a girl DH can go through the GD then rather than when bub arrives. Last time he didn't speak to me for a whole week
Hopefully this time it won't matter as much....

Why not get it written down and put in an envelope then you can chose to decide whether to look or not, and if you do make it over a lovely dinner or the like