Caro, I think that's my main pregnancy problem - the lack of support I've had and the five gazillion different midwives who all tell me off for something different - I'm a grown woman; treat me as such! I know I've had a really easy pregnancy, especially when I read about others, but I could do with not having to remind DH that he's to wash up the pots after I spent an hour cooking for him, or just not running around at work! (Last day tomorrow, huzzah!)

Everyone has something bad about pregnancy, even if they don't want to acknowledge it. My "preg hormone attacks" have been dreadful, as has my stupid streak which means I won't ask for help unless I'm about to die otherwise (although people are still unwilling to help) and the back pain and sciatica I wouldn't wish on anyone - some people have other problems, but we all have problems. Even if we're just living in denial! And I 'd never think anyone who hated pregnancy hated the baby, BTW - I really admire you for being willing to put yourself through it all again. You're much more of a stronger woman than I!