Hi everyone!!

As some of you might have read, I am having some difficulty in making a choice between a caesarean or natural birth. I am 15 weeks pregnant, and after getting a third degree tear with my first son, my doctor has recommended a caesarean. I kinda wanted to go natural, but do not really want to risk any major damage happening. I have received a lot of positive feedback for going natural again, but it appears most people are saying "avoid caesars at all costs." i just would like to know your ceaserean stories. I know from experience and everybody else's stories about natural births, but really dont know too much about ceasars. Any advice would be great!