I was seeing a guy who has a gf (long story) and found out I was pg. he wanted me to terminate but I was already 16 weeks, so he said adopt it. Since I already have 2 DD's I continued with the preg with his secret support. DS is 5 weeks old and he hasn't signed the birth cert and hasn't told any of his family and friends.

He is acting out of fear of how people are going to react and how he can support another child. I've told him that I will raise and support DS myself without anything from him. I'm happy to be doing this by myself. His support and acknowledgement would be nice, but I don't need it. I have my family and friends.