I can completely relate to this. Our DS (who was conceived via IVF after the loss of our second baby) is now 10 months old and unfortunately, not much has changed for us in this regard. It is a constant worry to me but I really don't know what to do about it - in our case it's me, not DH. After all the interventions, surgeries, stress of trying to fall prg and stay prg, I just feel like that 'sexual' part of me has disappeared. I don't know how to get it back but it's something that I'm going to have to start working on because the more time that passes, the more of an issue it becomes.

Will watch this thread with interest...it's very reassuring to see that it is a common issue.