Oh sweetie I am so sorry you feel this way. I am not going to tell you to relax, but I will tell you that you must be kind to yourself and remember that whatever happens will happen no matter what you do or don't do. For you that means that your body knows what to do, your baby is in the right place to grow and develop beautifully and the rest is in the hands of god or the universe or whatever you believe in. Try not to dwell on other stories around you, I kept doing that and now I wish I hadn't. Its completely overwhelming to be pregnant after wanting it for so long, but babe you are over the highest hardest hurdle, take a deep breath and be ready for the next one whatever it is. I am here any time you want to talk, if you want to ask me anything about my experience that might resassure you that you are different please ask i won't be offended or upset. If I can help you I will xxx