Hun, if it was me, i would be inclined say, "no its not my first, my first child is an angel baby and we miss her dearly.
Its straight to the point and should evade any further questions, and it also acknowledges Nikita.


(edt, i just read that back and my post sounds so blunt, sorry that was not my intention)
When i fell pregnant for the second time, with my first earth baby, i always said to people who asked that this was my first baby, but i have an angel baby as well.


and btw, im sp pleased that everything is going so well for you.