It's a tough one NaeNae. Do you lie to make the strangers comfortable? Or do you tell the truth?

Your approach sounds good to me. If they keep pushing, they get an unexpected answer. But if they let it go at the first question, then it's fine.

It's a hard one I think because something that is so personal like a pregnancy, is on display for everyone to see and chat to you about.

This is something I've been struggling with too. And until now have just been saying that it's my first and feeling a bit dirty for lying and not acknowledging my angel babies. But I really don't want ppl at work to know anything so personal about me.

Hope you strike a balance.