Hey everyone

Just thought id give you all an update-

For a start, ive got pelvic instability! Yay, something else to feel down about. While i was in getting that checked out i told the ob of my concerns as to how soon after birth they would be able to tell me if Abby has it or not. She said they would most likley have a pediatrician at the birth to check her over but we might not know for a few days at least if its not obvious. Thats pretty scary news as i just want this to be all over and done with asap so i can get on with everything, one way or the other.

Not coping to well- Im happy and positive most of the day, but at least once a day im having a bit of a melt down and i just wish i knew how i could stop doing this as its making life very hard.

Was at mums yesterday- she told me that i need to stop worrying about it. I asked her to tell me how. My sister is 22 and just had her tonsils out last week and mum looked like she was going to have a heart attack she was so worried- so if she feels that way over a minor thing like that, how in the world does she expect me to forget all about this and stop stressing about my little one? I know she just wants me to be happy (and i am most of the time) but surely she knows im going to stress about it from time to time.

Anyway- when we went to have the amnio done, the specialist said he would look at our scans again and write up another report. I have an app with my GP to find out what he has put in the report. (maybe he will say it was all a bit mistake..... hmm probably not!) I think this is the better way to do it as there never seems to be enough time when i see the ob/midwife. Also going to get some info on the pelvic instability thing as i cant get into the hospital physio for at least 2 weeks- grrr how am i going to last 2 weeks!! I spose its going to last till months after bubby is born so id better get use to it. Im very thankful that while it hurts, it has no effect on Abby.

Other than that, my belly is getting bigger, Abby's kicks are getting stronger and her room is getting fuller!!!! (lots of shopping in the last week) Apart from this stress, i love being pregnant, she is such a wonderful little friend and i cant wait to meet her. :hbeat:

Oh! im 23 weeks today! yayyyyyyyy!!!!