Kim - yes that's what I should've done in the first place!

MM - good idea

Taryn - yes it would be lovely to have a little secret! Oooh look at your ticker, counting down now!

CK - yeah same here with Moo, some people would NOT give up trying to guess his name. Very annoying! Good point about the pestering!

Megs - Not telling the kids sounds like a good start

UA - LOL I'm sure I'll tell a select few if we decide to 'not tell' too

Thanks everyone for your tips and opinions, lots to think about!