Eeeks spinning babies is a waste of time?! I don't think so. Thats so sad

I really wouldn't worry about size, it has no bearing on the birth if your labour is effective. My first birth resulted in an emerg c/s after 27 hours of labour but I look back and the labour was ineffective and I didn't know how to make it effective. With my second I had a doula and had done calmbirthing, as well as implementing an active birth it was a beautiful experience that resulted in me birthing my 9lb11oz baby boy with no drugs and not even a tear. He was 10oz more than my daughter (first birth) yet I birthed him with ease. Educate yourself regardless of what your Ob has said as I really do think that is the most empowering way to help you have the birth you want.

You can do it Don't let one person's negativity drag you down