Your body will find a second labour easier than a first. Its been there before. First labours are often longer, more troublesome but it's important not to judge your second birth on your first. Second births are typically shorter and less stressful.

I'd strongly recommend checking out the Pink Kit but you would need to get it now and work on it straight away.

https://www.bellybelly.com.au/pregnancy/the-pink-kit

If you are talking which is safer, a VBAC definitely it. Complications (including mortality) are higher for mum and bub in a c/s. Your body is strong, willing and able - your scar is strong. I would really focus on action now, do all you can and remember - your baby may turn anterior at any time anyway. I'd be focusing on getting yourself educated and prepared with birth skills and knowledge on how to make this VBAC successful. Don't leave it in the hands of your carer to decide what will happen to you - make an informed decsion.