I so get you Delph! I had one MW who was thingy about weight too - I avoided booking appointments with her, even though I was meant to see her for every 3rd appointment I just "happened" to be busy on her appointment days so scheduled with one of my two other MWs.

My anti fat MW would sigh "oh I will have to get the extral large cuff to fit around your arm" (every other MW just used the normal cuff as I am between the sizes". And she would always ask about what I was eating and if I was walking a lot (I was going to the gym so at least I could answer that with pride!). But I left her appointments feeling ashamed and guilty. The worst was when she said that I should only gain 4kg for the rest of my pg and that was at 20 weeks! Um... can't see that happening! (And it didn't, but I'm dealing with it now...)

Anyway, you do what you need to do in order to get through your appointment. Don't bring DH unless you feel it will help.

:hugs:

Please post again to debrief after your visit!