ugh.... i had one of them.. last pregnancy. Loved to tell me how obese I was and when I would leave she would say "go home and dont eat anything!"...

So I feel for you. Now looking back at it I wish I had stuck up for myself and told her to go jump. They cant speak to you like that

Just tell him how it is hun. Say its no appropriate. You know you have a weight problem... its not rocket science and you dont need reminding at every appointment etc.