Meg,

Indah has porridge, toast or weetbix for brekky, she will have a biscuit snack in between (also EBM) then for lunch she might have a sandwich with vegemite, or jam, or cheese... plus some fruit, then maybe a snack of a fruit, yogurt & also EBM, then dinner I make up veggies or whatever & offer her what we are having, sometimes if our meal isnt appropriate for her, I might give her a tin of food but will add extra veggies & freeze the rest for another night....
I made meat balls which she scoffed into....