Wow Kristy how could you be on anyones "side" when you only know one version of the story??? I am not sure how anyone could possibly side with one person or another without knowing both versions of truth. It is that very thing that causes friction and dysfunction...

Alibaby is correct the OP asked for some direction, perspective and advice.

Breastfeeding has from some peoples perspective quite a bit to do with it - & from the OP this is an issue... I think that what we are aiming to see here is not "sides" but support and direction in a difficult and painful situation.