Thanks for clarifying, CFlake. You are right about the car thing, I do remember it is different for two-seater cars. It isn't ideal from a safety perspective, however, I guess you do the best you can.

GL with your plans to get back to Melbourne and sorting out all the custody issues with your XW. I hope things have settled down a bit by then between the two of you and you are able to come to something you can both feel comfortable with. I'm glad you are getting good legal help.