I've just had a thought that I will share with you but please dom't take it as gospel... Okay?

Once you separate in order to move your x will have to agree. You cannot by law take the children away (or child in your case) without a relocation order or a parenting plan that has been lodged with the Court that is in agreeance with this.

I am wondering if perhaps it is better for you to go now - with his consent. But get some advice immediately and whatever you do do not act on what I am saying. Just it was a thought that if he's going to get nasty but he's happy for you to go now. So it's just a thought.

Trust me being stuck in a small country town with your ex husband while he swans around with Goodness knows who is no easy path... So, if it's moving away that you believe you ultimately would like to do. My guess would be to do it now.

But get a Lawyer. Yesterday! Okay??>> Please please this is incredibly important...

I would only go with a large firm. Definitely ensure that they are accredited family law specialists... Word of mouth is always good. What part of Qld do your parents live? I might be able to help you. If you dom't want to put that out there and you are happy to PM me with your location I can see if I can get some recommendations...