jas - i am a romantic at heart too, and I knew that XH loved me still, he has just been arrogant and selfish these past couple of years, and finally he has seen the light and I truly believe he will do what ever it takes to keep me happy, just like he used to

rachel - I could definately not visit Sunday Night Guy again, have dleted his number from my phone, it would shatter XH if I went there again. XH knows full well that I know I can have any one I want now, so I am very sure that is enogh to keep him on his toes, and hey, if in the future he starts slipping back into old habits, there is always flirting with others to remind him of how much he wants me!

XH has been amazing, just like he was for the first 5 years we were together, it is so wonderful, I think we are falling in love all over again

BTW - he changed all the light bulbs yesterday LOL, and when we went shopping he had a lovely convo with the sales girl, at least I know he is listening to me now