reallyreally scared

[Kazmar]

Im so sorry to hear you are being put through this! Your child will NOT be messed up, he/she obiously have a loving, wonderful mother already!
Try your hardest not to doubt yourself or let him convince you of such bull!

You will find great support here and maybe check in your town if there are any groups with singl mummies?

[Butterfly Child]

Awww Hun Im so sorry your feeling like this. it is really hard babe but you no what when you see that little babies face it will all be worth the struggle your having now.
i went through the same thing xp left me in the early days when i was pregnant and told me i should have an abortion too and wen i didnt he left.. but you no what its the best decison i have ever made in my life!, As hard as it is try and enjoy every moment it is so special, i think the early days are the hardest with finding out and the morning sickness it will get better i promise.

If you ever need any support someone to talk to im always here babe i know how hard it can be xx chin up hun and Congragulations on your pregnancy

[Lulu]

Might be a good idea to stay away from this guy for awhile ok? He is doing nothing for you right now. don't worry about accom right now. Babies don't take up much room in the early days xoxoxoxo

Kids get more messed up by twat fathers than absent ones..

Come on in here any old time you like.

[Butterfly Child]

Oh i forgot to Add but Lulu reminded me

I live with my parents still and i wouldnt have had it any other way seriously especially in the early days like lulu said they dont take up much room and your parents will love having your little bub around im sure( i felt the exact same once i found out that i would be a nuisance and that there wouldnt be much room etc) trust me. My parents often we are so lucky they absolutly adore DD we only live in a 3 bdr house with 6 but you make it work hun they say they wouldnt have it any other way and im sure your parents will be fine babe