I was really scared to have a baby too and I'm married. Something takes over once you have that baby though and there is no more fear, just love. You can do it, there is strength in you and you will find it. Labour really isn't really as bad as it seems right now. I was terrified of it too and although it was tiring and painful, it really wasn't as bad as what I had built it up to in my mind.

I think you can do it, but there is also the option of adoption if you don't think you can handle raising a child right now. I'm adopted so i think it's a pretty wonderful thing.

I hope you have some close friends and family to support you through this, whatever you decide to do. This is a great place to come to for support and advice.