*lulu lies widdles on the couch, puts on her glasses and assumes a psychologist look....

Hmm, one thing that popped into my head straight away is this. So once upon a time you actually did have an opinion in this relationship right? Then it started to disappear? Ok, so tell me *adjusts glasses, what kind of behaviour did Dp display that made you change your behaviour, and start pussy footing around him?

Umm Hmmm? So my bet is that he sulked or gave you the silent treatment, but anyhoo whatever he did made it not worth you to pursuing your view and it just got easier to let it be, right?

SO - expect to see that behaviour and lots of it. Expect it to escalate. He might even tell you that he is going for custody and you are a crap mother. That comes straight from the "Boys Manual in Breaking Up" - 90% of them say that.

My diagnosis - you are about to shed ALOT of weight in the next few days - about 90kilos of bloke. This is natural and the beginning of a great new time for you.
My prescription - plenty of lovin from us here, and remember the golden rule of dealing with Dheads - imagine a penis protuding from his forehead and dangling in his eyes...

*lulu adjusts her glasses and pulls the wedgie out of her bum...