Just wanted to say, Lulu's advice works wonders. Had a visit from the ex and all i could think about was the penis dangling from his forehead. And the logistics of him and his entire family having to all live with that "condition". It certainly helped me keep a dumb smile on my face just so i wouldn't have an outburst and make the visit into some kind of world war..

I hope things start getting better for you soon. Sounds like some time with just you & DS is just what you need. *HUG*