I had my bridesmaids pick the dress. I told them the colour (dark green dresses and gold shoes and stole with a single white rose carried) and that was OK. The three of us picked the dress together and it was a pattern the girls liked but was my 3rd choice. I'd rather have them happy tbh.

I thought the role of the bridesmaid was to hold the bouquet, sit at the head table and look good on my pictures. Also help arrange my dress if it mussed up a bit. That's what my girls did. I did tell them I wanted their hair in French Knots and French Manicured fingernails, although Mum paid for that (sister and cousin for bridesmaids).

I didn't give them an exercise routine! Although my cousin didn't cut her hair off as she wanted until after the wedding, but I didn't know she wanted it off until I saw her again a few months later, that was her choice (my sister had short hair and didn't want to grow it then so just bought fake hair that clipped onto her own on the day).

Now I want to get married again just to see how far I can push it. Exercise routines, dictating on them making stuff for me, being rude... I wanna have fun!