Nic, huge hugs to you. I am so sorry about your Grandmum. My thoughts are with you all at this sad time.

It sounds like the children have dealt with it well so far. Hats off to you for preparing them so well.

As the the days and weeks and motnhs go by, no doubt you and they will feel the full gamet of grieving emotions.....there is no "right" or "wrong" way to grieve I guess, and you will have each other to ease you all through.....xx