Oh cop this then - "you are a disgusting mother and you hit your own children". Ummm, I have a well known stance against smacking and she knows it. AND "you leave SOFT PORN pictures of yourself around for your children to see"..... well that would be the professional shots that were taken when I was about 25. 90% of them were clothed (and framed on my mums piano actually), and a few in my knickers and bra - I found the proofs in a cleanout the other day and Dp and I were fondly remembering the days of perky bosoms....

I can't roll my eyes enough. Have you had a look at the Tough Love Website? Parentline is excellent for a debrief/sounding board too xoxoxo