Bec, MrsMac: come on now. Yes, boys can be abused too, but does this happen to almost every boy? No. I'm not denying it happens, just saying that it's FAR more common to happen to girls. I'll be just as strict with who can and cannot stay over with DS as I would be a daughter, just be a little happier that I don't have to worry about what goes on at the girlfriend's house as mothers of boys seem to be a little more relaxed about sleeping arrangements - or that is the way it has always been with everyone I know.