I know a boy who feels his first time was more or less rape since he was a little drunk and she climbed on him. He can't tell people that though. If a girls says that the police are called. If a boy says it he is laughed out of the place. Boys aren't raised to EVER EVER admit they're uncomfortable in any sexual situations. Society expects boys to love it and be chasing it all the time and girls to be chaste and selective.

Bec