Limeslice, I think the point that Ausgirl was trying to make is that at that age, in the early adolescent period that girls do rationalise it like that simply because the don't have the capacity to think otherwise just yet kwim? I'm sure that adult women wouldn't have so much trouble with it because for the most part we have already made that leap, but young teens haven't.

Same applies for young teen boys. They just can't split the two apart and I think it fosters an unhealthy relationship with females and sex from the very start if that is all they know. They need to be taught the difference and if they aren't, then that's going to continue into adulthood.

That said, there is nothing wrong with porn at all, but I don't think young teens have the mental capacity to see it and understand it for what it is.