It is so nice to not be alone in this. We spend so much time thinking maybe it was too much coffee, Maybe I lifted something too heavy( like a 3 year old), maybe maybe maybe. But in the end we just drive ourselves crazy. I have just had my 3 rd early miscarriage or chemical pregnancies. I'm sure earlier is better than later on but...it still sucks.
My mom said "In my day we had to wait until AF was two weeks late..." In which case I wouldn't have known I was pregnant except I knew all three times before testing. Sometimes I wish I was one of those women who are surprised they are pregnant and don't even think to test until they are more than 6 weeks.
It would have saved me such heartache.