Hi BW

Just saw this and wanted to sahre a story, I have no such experience with loss, but my dear sister in law miscarried last year in March at 8.5 weeks. She was 35. 2.5 moths later she was pregnant again.
Do not get me wrong, she grieved and was very sad all the time, but a few weeks after her loss she looked on the up side. She blamed herself for the loss and through much discussion with her OB and support group she realised that this can happen to anyone of any age and of any background. She stopped looking for answers as to why it happened as there were too many reasons, and just concentrated on moving on. She now has Julian my darling 5 month old nephew. BW, I cannot imagine what you and others are going through, but a decision like this entirely depends on how you feel about getting pregnant, maybe getting pregnant now can help with the grief as you have a new miracle to look forward to, but on the other hand you might not enjoy a new pregnancy as you could live in constant fear that it will happen again.

My sister in law was haemorrhaging for the first 4 months and lived in constant fear, but she was so strong and saw her new baby as her will to stay strong. She now remembers her angel baby but sees it as natures way, something was not right…..and now she is blessed with a healthy baby.

All the best BW, I will follow your journey no matter which road you take.