Hi everyone. I was just flicking through, and this struck a chord with me because I'm also at the "when do you know?" crossroads. I had my 3rd MC about 3 months ago (though I have a beautiful daughter who turned 1 last week!) and have been up in the air about trying again. One day I'm raring to go (we want a house full of kids), but on other days I'm so full of anxiety over what might happen, that i too think" hey, we've got one, we're blessed". It's the hardest thing, because I feel that once the decision is made, there's no chickening out. I told DP today that I'm ready to go again, but here I am really humming and harring? Do you ever know for sure, or just fly with what life brings?