Hey Deb,

DH and I bought a plant and a statue for our angel baby. We also bought a candle and would lit the candle whenever we felt that horrible emptiness that lived inside of us for soo long afterwards...It really helped. My DH and I found our grief alittle easier because we had something physical that reminded us of Leigham. DH kept the wax from the candle and has it on his bedside table.
I really don't have any suggestions other than that. I remember the months following the m/c as being the darkest days in my life..it helps to know though that there are people who care- thats what BB is for....we all know how you feel

Feel free to PM if you want to chat more