Did any of you girls ever have anyone say you should "be over it" or something similar only a week or 2 after it happening? My mum is very self centered and she has pretty much said that I should be over it and it would be harder for my sister who lost her first, even though shes now 20 weeks pregnant... and just cause I already have 2 children I shouldn't be as upset...

For starters I had planned on 4 children but had to compromise on 3 with DF... and I don't think it matters if its your first or last baby you lose, its still hard!! She basically said this on my FB page and I feel I can't even have a say on there so giving it a miss for awhile

How this started was my neighbour is currently about 9 weeks preg with her 2nd and this time around shes suffering from morning sickness...and she seems to go on to be about it all the time...and all I said on FB was "am I being to over emotional about it or is it a bit in sensitive of her to go on about it to me" I understand she might not of been thinking straight but I couldn't talk about my pregnancy to someone whos just lost a baby, whether that baby being only 5 weeks or further along...

Sorry to go on, I just feel i might have a bit more support in here....thanks for listening girls xoxo