Deb

No-one directly said to me I should be over it by now- but I know people thought it. It was like they figured it's all over now so move on- it is almost impossible to move on soo quickly and to be honest it initially got harder before it got better.

Yesterday I went on a walk as part of remembrance day for SIDS, stillbirth and miscarriage. DH came too and we found it quite healing. We released a balloon for our angel baby. There were about 300 people there. Anyway, when I saw mum i told her what we did and she asked why we went at I said 'well I had a miscarriage'...she had forgotten about it ! Mum said- oh-you still think about that? And I said "yes mum-everyday".

The thing is Deb- people who havn't had a m/c don't understand. They havn't felt the pain and the emptiness. In most cases they don't mean to be insensitive..That why your BB friends are soo good - we know

Your neighbor is probably rapt up in her pregnancy and not really thinking about how it impacts on you....but your NOT being over emotional about things. Your hurt and it does take time to move on to a place of acceptance.