Sallyk61, I know what you mean... it's like guys are always wanting to DTD but as soon as you want to or need to, they're not interested. Before getting married last year DH was always after a piece. After and now that we're TTC, it's almost impossible to get him interested. Hard not to take it personally and even harder to not get upset about it when it means you have another month or so to wait before trying again.