Tinsel - sorry about AF arriving, but I hope you enjoy that glass of wine! Yeah, I really don't get people sometimes either. What a horrible thing to say! There was one woman at my work who I had a bit of a problem with too. I decided I didn't want anyone except my direct boss knowing what had happened. Everyone else just dropped the issue when I said I didn't want to talk about it, except her. Out of my friends, most do not have kids and a lot obviously did not understand what it feels like to go through something like this and expected me to be over it in like a day or two. I decided it would only hurt and not help to tell them about the second one. The trouble is, now everytime I see someone and they ask what has been happening, I have nothing to say. The major thing in my life right now is trying to cope with depression, having copious amounts of blood taken, waiting for psych and specialist appointments, worrying about ever having a family and trying not to cry 24 hours a day. Thus, I really don't have much to say to anyone, except you guys.
Jane - I see pg women everywhere too, and it's so hard. What I have seen a lot lately that has really made me mad is pg people smoking or eating things I know they should NOT be eating. Grrr...
SP - yes, I have found the counsellor helpful, but have only seen her once. Mine specialises in this kind of thing too. I hope you find it helpful too. I am glad your DH told his sis about your m/c, at least it is out there now and I am sure she will understand how you are feeling.
Niki- I am so sorry to hear about your baby. Please don't blame yourself sweetie, you did nothing wrong. Try to take it easy and give yourself some time to grieve, and remember we are all here for you. Yes, most of us feel confused about TTC again after a m/c, it is perfectly normal and we all understand the feeling.
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