Tonners, I know what you mean about being taken by surprise. My first pregnancy was a breeze, we got pregnant first try (much to DH's dismay) and the pregnancy and labour were trouble free (no drugs even). Now I am facing having my second m/c. The first I did not know I was pregnant until I was miscarrying and DD was only 6months old, so we really were not prepared for it. At the time everyone told me it happened because it was too soon after having DD and I agreed. Now after TTC for 4 months and having m/c number 2 I am very apprehensive.

Like you I am keen to TTC again but my reason is a bit silly. I had a dream, in which I was told that my next healthy baby would be born on Dec 18 2007. Now for that to happen I have to conceive in March. I had this dream whilst still pregnant but I was having problems at the time and I think my subconsciene sent me this message to ease my pain. On the other hand (my practicle side) I think it might be wise to wait until AF arrives or even a couple of months. It is so hard to know what to do. Sorry to ramble