So sorry for your loss Tonners, it is a very hard time, it too lost alot of blood after my d & c and took at least 3 weeks to fill normal again... I have just had my first af since my d & c 10 weeks ago.. I got told to wait for one af then try and also was told wait 3 mths. See what your body does it will tell you.. Maybe just wait for your af and then see what happens you will fall pg when your body is ready.. I hope that helps..