ric - i live in sth eastern subs, rowville. we seem to have had a similar journey, we lost at 12 weeks too, starting bleeding and u/s confirmed it. 1st pregnancy and i can completely relate to you when you say you lost all your innocence... i was so relaxed in my last pregnancy, so happy and just enjoyed every second of it! i know next time i will be a crazy stress head and that wont be good for me or bubs!! your in my prayers to get your BFN!!! will be thinking of you!!! oh and i love First Response test! I buy the 3 pack!!! got my BFP last time on day 28 even though I used to have a 35 day cycle so Im sticking with them! xx