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thread: Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss Jan 2010

  1. #127
    BellyBelly Member

    Dec 2009
    Victoria
    576

    thanx Emmy! And Im sorry to hear about your BFN, hugs to you darlin and I hope your holding up as best you can xx

    I hope we start to get some sticky BFPs in here soon! xx

  2. #128
    Registered User

    Aug 2009
    Murray River Victoria
    649

    Wow lots of reading to do when I got home!!

    Just thaught I'd pop in and let you all know how things went X

    Never got that choice to have full or light anasthetic, let's just say it was a medium, and I woke up ok for about half an hour, then the nausea and dizziness sterted, and I never got discharged till 7:30 last night................
    I hate any sort of anasthetic.....felt awesome drifting off to sleep though!!! Felt tingly all the way up my arm, then whamo....nothing
    Today a bit tender down there, and sleepy.

    Well I got 9 good eggies, 4 were ICSI and the remaining 5 were put in a dish and the spermies went for it. 3 out of each had fertilised by thismorning. Which I am told is a pretty good number.
    (there were 4 girls that I remember crying in recovery room because they got none)

    So I have '6' baby murraycod's at the moment Just have to wait and see how they grow up until Friday.
    I head back to Adelaide on Friday for my Embie Transfer and I can't wait!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Anyways I am exhausted, the 5hr drive home kills me, and I still not fully back to normal from yesterday, so please don't be offended if I do no persies ATM XXX

    Love you all, will try and be back after for some persies when I'm up to it XXXXX

  3. #129
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    Good news murraycod sending you healthy grow/divide vibes to your 6 baby murraycod's

  4. #130
    BellyBelly Member

    Dec 2009
    Victoria
    576

    murraycod - wow! you sure can grow em!!! awesome news and take it easy ok! xx

  5. #131
    Registered User

    Nov 2009
    Brisbane, QLD
    251

    emmy - thanks hun. I think i'm in the same boat as you though - just a bfn waiting for AF. Darn it. I'll keep my fingers crossed for a late O this cycle.. but i don't think so. Hope Af is there when u wake up.. get the new cycle going. stupid AF, you don't wanna see her, but if you do she won't show up.

    Murraycod - no wonder you were so tender leading up to the harvest! All those eggs! Well done babe!!! This one's gonna be your one! I'm feeling very excited for you.. just rest up a bit now! keep us informed.xxx

  6. #132
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    WA
    508

    Just a quick reply

    Great news murraycod lets hope they all divide and you get the news your waiting for must be so exciting knowing on friday you have the chance of conception right in your hands I send you all the vibes I can and you get the result you want , How many will they put back on friday do you know ? I hope you end up with twins !

    Not much happening this end still in the TWW and its getting harder by the day as all those phantum pg symptoms seem to be happening to me and I dare not listen to them, I prefer not knowing at the moment as I am so scared if I get a BFP as it is another waiting game to then see if its gonna stick ! I spent 12 wks with morning sickness for nothing last year don't think I can take that again !

    sorry no more personnels but I am trying to keep busy and my mind off this TWW
    how will I manage another 4 days !

  7. #133
    Registered User

    Jun 2009
    Camperdown
    421

    Murraycod im so glad to hear that all is going well with you. Good luck with the embie transfer on friday and YUK to the 5 hr trip but im sure it will all be worth it. Sorry for my ignorance but after the transfer how long untill you know whether its a BFP??
    Craftmummy hope the next 4 days arent too hard on you. I really hope you get your BFP and i completely understand what you mean about worrying when you do get it. Every little pain or cramp i get im completely freaking out. Stay positive hun and hopefully its all worth it in 4 days time

  8. #134
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    866

    evening everyone, sunbeam-cutting down on workload sounds like a good idea...ciara-that's great about your friend...emmy-your friend as well,these positive stories gives us all hope...mummyof4-hope this is your month too..ttcalovechild-i wouldn't think cm would be anything to worry about..cookie-hope your feeling a bit better today...t-hopes-not long now..eliselouise-glad everything is going well,take one day at a time,i'm sorry the innocense of pregnancy has been taken away...murraycod-grow embies,grow.Hope you've been able to have some rest and your phone call gives brings good news,they give you daily updates,don't they.Can't help but feel for ladies in recovery,so much lead up to not retrieve any,i thought they would be able to tell my ultrasound if their was none in their...craftymummy-not long before you get to pee on a stick..

  9. #135
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    WA
    508

    Matthews mum and eliselouise thanks for thinking of me I can't wait to test in one way and too scared to test in another so I can't win but thanks for the support I really feel better being able to tell someone how im feeling,

    eliselouise keep going girl hopefully I can join you in the other thread soon and if not then I just keep on trying as the girls stories on here about 45 yr olds really gives me hope I am 45 in April ! and have had 14 pregnancies in 24yrs but its never been easy for me to keep them I have lost 5 bubs upto now and it never gets easier ! But I do know the worse you feel the better for you IYKWIM your hormones are strong you feel crap !

    all the other girls keep on going we all need a BFP this year !

    T-hopes how you holding out are you like me too scared to test but need to know !

    MURRAYCOD thinking of you every day and waiting for updates more excited about that than peeing on a stick ! crazy hey !

  10. #136
    Registered User

    Jan 2009
    Perth
    276

    just a quick one today,

    murraycod glad things are going well and can't wait to hear how your little codlings are growing

    craftymummy9 good luck when you test! only a few more days to go

    Emmy83 sorry about bfn, hopefully next time

    eliselouise85 i'm sure the cramps are just cuz your little one is just snuggling in

    ciara.e maybe you did o later in your cycle than you thought? how many days are your cycles normally?

    T-hopes good luck for thursday

  11. #137
    2013 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Apr 2009
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    Onto the next month for me. Stupid AF is arriving but atleast I guess its not late so thats something to be grateful for a I have known for ages I am not pregnant so no point not been excited it finally arrived and hopefully next month is successful. I can always hope.

  12. #138
    BellyBelly Member

    Dec 2009
    Victoria
    576

    crafty - yeah... sh*&ing bricks about testing to be honest!! lol... but super excited if its a BFP that will appear!!! very mixed feelings!!! good luck to us all xx

  13. #139
    Registered User

    Aug 2009
    Murray River Victoria
    649

    Craftymummy 3 days to go you can do it!!!!! Show me how it's done babe!!!! A full TWW!!!!! My fingers are crossed for you XXX
    Because I am under 35yo, Repromed only likes to put back 1embie (fresh...unfrozen) at a time, but once frozen and thawed, they will put 2. I can over ride their decision If I really want to, but I don't want to be greedy, I'm happy with 1 healthy bubba!

    SPF (HUGG) How are you??? How's the kitten settled in?!

    Emmy83 sorry to read of your BFN, I hope when AF arrives she is kind and breif XX

    Thopes 6 days and your ****t'n bricks already!!!!! (sorry girls for the aussie slang but Thopes started it!!!)
    Hold it out babe, I'm praying for you XXX Few more days atleast!!!!

    Matthew'sMum the ultrasound shows how many follicles you have grown, but not all of them contain eggies , so it is still just a guess of how many you actually have. They mainly do the scan for Follie size, and endometrium thickness XX
    I would be devastated to go through all of that, to end up with no try at all. How Ferrals survived her experience has got me beat. She's one strong lassy I tell ya!!

    Eliselouise thanks for dropping in XXXX I hope you are well, and holding out for 2 1/2 more weeks to hear how your scan goes!! How exciting!!
    Once I have ET on friday, I have to wait 16days till BT. But I get to test 15DP ET because of the long weekend. My DH and My 1st Wedding anniversary is on the 25th, We get BT on 26th!!! Geez I hope it's a good one. I just have to focus towards getting to Friday with a healthy blasty first before I get ahead of myself!

    Mrsdex Thanks for popping by too XX Nice to meet you

    Cookie thank you for the poem, it was inspiring to read XXX
    I hope you are well hunXXX

    Mummyof4 TWW WOOHOO!!!! (I mean WAABW WOOHOO!!!) Hope you caught that swimmer girl!X I hope it is your month sweetheart, It would be so lovely to have things fall into place, where you would be due near Kyarna's Birthday XX I do hope things work out for you XXX Cuz your my sweetypie!!X

    TTCALC still no AF??? It might take your body a little while to get back to a normal cycle for you hun X I hope sooner for you, have you tried accupuncture at all with your other ilnesses?? I do accupuncture, after I MC last March, it put me straight back into a cycle again within 35 days. I hope you are well XXX

    Well my body clock is a little muddled because I have been sleeping so much, I'm not tired when I should be going to bed!!!
    I am also praying that my little embies get to blasty stage and last until Friday, I know a couple will cease to grow, I just need a miracle right now XX

  14. #140
    2013 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Apr 2009
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    Murraycod I am praying for that miracle for you. Do they update you again today or wait for another few days?
    Stupid AF arrived in full force this morning as predicted from the pink CM last night. I honestly don't know how much more I can keep trying. Surely this has got to come to and end soon. Oh well.

  15. #141

    Apr 2009
    central coast
    2,298

    Just a quick one

    Way to go murrycod 9 you got 1 more than me im glad everything went smoothly and you are feeling ok you will lose a few in the next couple of days hopeful not to many i started with 8 if you remeber and ended up with 3 blastocysts one they tested and it was effected and the other two were a grade 3 so we could of had them transfered untested but thats the same as trying naturally so i would rather nature decide if i get pregnant with a sick baby i cant do the what if i diddnt do ect thing and blame myself and yes it was devastating going through all that and not have an uneffected embryo but i have read posts were women have tried many times and none of there embies make it so i feel good knowing my eggs are still pretty good and i can make embryos but i hope you have better luck than me do you get a day 3 report if so find out what grade your embies are at i have my fingers crossed for you.

    AFM- sorry for no personals have been a bit down the last few days DH and i took the kids to the pool and there were babies everywhere and parents in the pool with little ones and DH said we deffinately need to have one as we watched a little bub splashing in the water it broke my heart and i felt like it was my fault again Abbi would of been 5 months old yesterday.
    Last edited by ferrals5; January 13th, 2010 at 11:42 AM.

  16. #142
    Registered User

    Aug 2009
    Murray River Victoria
    649

    Ferrals, It will be ok I promise XXXXX And thank you XXXXX

  17. #143
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    Melbourne, Victoria
    88

    MurrayCod - That was a Good News, Hope Everything Goes well this cycle and you get a big BFP with the start of this 2010, sending you lots of positive vibes and good wishes
    Ferrals - Big Hugs Hun, Dont worry everything is going to be allright and soon you will be pregnant again.
    Emmy - sorry AF arrived for you. Good thing is another month to crack...hopefully this month sweety. Send some here, mine is cycle day 32 and no trace of AF. i am thinking to see my GP, lets see
    Anita - whats happening with you? did you get the AF...
    THopes - How are you feeling?
    EliseLouise - Glad to know, everything is fit and fine with you. Thanks for babydust

    I am waiting for AF to come, hopefully soon

  18. #144
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    866

    morning all, craftymummy-hope you've found something to distract you from the tww,for a bit anyway...scarypinkfairy-how are you?..emmy-i know it's cold comfort but at least now you can get ready for this cycle,rest up...t-hopes-good luck,looking at your ticker,are you testing Monday??me too,though doc's don't hold out any hope for me with a natural cycle,hope i surprise them!!..murraycod-thanks for the info,i've obviously have a lot to learn,looking forward to your update!!..ferrals-hugs to you &your family.I know it is heartbreaking, just so unfair.How are your boys coping with missing Abbi...

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