Naomi Thats good atleast you have told him now, Ricki is very much a thinker as I am sure you already know let him diegest it for a little while and I am sure he will talk to you about it, and it would not have helped with mum getting home either.

and yes I will be joining you all soonish probably in october I think although I am very nervous of trying again it is a daunting thought and I think I will spend my next pg scared well I hope not but I just cant imagine not being worried but I am sure these are natural feelings that we all have in common.

Jayne Congratulations, sounds very posative for you YAY Woohoo