Salt- I understand your disappointment :hugs:. I am praying that it will happen for you soon.
Satya- It just seems to be more bad days then good at the moment but I do have alot to be grateful for so I need to start focusing on those things a little more!
Sharon- Thanks for the info on the cervix! I am just so into finding out all the aspects of TTC so maybe it will make things easier and there is so much I didn't know before because the two times I fell pregnant we didn't even have to try it happened first go.
I am sorry you are having difficulties yourself at the moment. I hope that your ob will give you good news and that it will b e just a couple of pills (If it is give me some!).
Las- I am so excited for you! Great news about the scan so hopefully this will be your month for a BFP!
Well for the first time since the loss of our little girl my husband talked to me about it and actually cried (Not a crier at anytime). He has been a little hesitant in TTC and just kept saying he might not be ready for the responsibility (made no sense to me either). So I finally realised why and asked him if it was because he was scared that I would miscarry again and finally a break through YES! Did anyone elses partners of husbands feel like this? How do I reassure him so he will want to TTC?
Oh well better fold some washing and check my little boy is sleeping!
Salt - so sorry to hear AF is on her way. Boo hiss to her! I know how you feel, but at least you have a good plan and a great OB to see in a couple of months if you haven't fallen. I like a plan - I find it usually makes you feel better! I don't know if this helps, but apparently there is only a 20% chance of falling each month, so sometimes it can take time, but you WILL get there! DH and I would like 3 or 4 kids, but I am thinking there is not much chance of that now, as we will run out of time. If it takes this much time, effort and losses to just get one, I think I will get too old to have 4 now! It would be nice to manage 3, but I suppose we just have to wait and see. to you. And you are not being whingey - I have those same thoughts too. Everywhere I look there are pg women, and I think why did they get to keep their babies when both of mine died? It should be the easiest thing in the world, yet for some of us it just doesn't work out that way. It really is so unfair.
Diane - what you are feeling is totally normal. I am terrified no matter what too! I am scared of not getting pg, of getting pg, I am utterly terrified of scans and the first appointment if I am pg, I am scared of BTs in case they tell me the levels are too low, I am scared of everything! I don't really have any advice - I think it is only natural to feel this way. I have found counselling good - to try and drive away those negative thoughts and replace them with happy things, and I try to look at all the good things in my life and focus on them. The trouble is that doesn't always work! At least you can always come here and know that we understand what you are going through.
Lee - I get really sore nips around O time, so that may be a good sign for you!
cherie - my DH was the same. They seem to find it so hard to talk about things, and then finally open up. My DH is scared of us m/cing again, and of the effect it has on me, but has made the decision to keep trying, knowing that if I m/c yet again I will probably lose the plot completely. I am glad that he has finally opened up to you - it makes it much easier to understand where you are both coming from. Sometimes they just take so long to get there!
las - glad to hear your scan went better this time. Yay!
megsmum - that's tough about your friend being pg. A friend did a similar thing to me recently - lied to me about it hoping that I would get pg, because then it would be easier to tell me! It really doesn't help, does it?
Sharon - I am pretty sure you will find that it is just a matter of a few tablets and nothing more than that, as you fall easily enough. When is your appointment?
missbelinda - good to hear from you. Sorry to hear about your grandfather. Where are you at atm?
OMG, I have just seen 9 preggo women today (possibly a tenth, but she was a little large so not sure if it was a baby bump or not). Are they stalking me or something??
SP I am so sorry that AF is on her way to you hun. missbelinda77 nice to see you pop in, I hope work doesn't keep you too busy though. *las* the ob/gyn I see is the same one that delivered my GP's 2 boys so he can't be too bad. I have my fingers crossed that your body keeps behaving and you get your bfp this cycle. cherie26 I didn't have a clue about any of these O signs/symptoms but it doesn't take long to pick it up and work it out. Bun my appointment is on June 15th, so only 2 weeks away. How are you going? not long till testing as for all the preggo women, everytime I go out I see hundreds of them (well maybe not quite that many LOL)
my temp went down this morning, and had some more ewcm today, dh played golf this afternoon and was definitely not up for a BD session, so I think I will just have to pin him down tomorrow night LOL
Sharon- good luck with the BDing.
las - Best of luck with your follie.
Salt - sorry your AF is on it's way. Try and keep positive.
Kiwigirl - CD10 for you already. That came around really quickly.
Cherie - It's good that you and your partner had that conversation. Best to get things out in the open. My DF did not feel like that - he just wanted to get straight back into TTC mode again but our situation is very different - I have a history of infertility so the odds of conception aren't great and I am 41 so I have a 40% chance of m/c even if I do conceive - therefore we have to just keep trying.
Bun - 3 or 4 kids - gee your keen. Just the one will do for me, but then again we do have one part time so make that 1.5. Due to my age I'm scared I'll end up with twins.... don't get me wrong it would be great but I don't know how I'd afford child care for two kids.... we already pay it for miss 4 but she would be in school by then so maybe we could..... or perhaps I'd just have to give up work. You are not the only one being stalked by preggo women - it's happening to me to. You know it's a really good sign - I saw heaps of them the month I conceived - lets hope its our lucky month this month.
Sorry to anyone I've missed.
Well it's CD18 for me now & 4DPO. Feeling really positive this cycle. Let me tell you why. My skin has not broken out after Oing - I always break out and the only cycle where this didn't happen was when I was pg. My coverline moved on FF from CD12 to CD14 which is exactly what I thought as I experienced some pretty severe O pain that day. I have cold symptoms, trying not to read anything into this though as half the office has had a bug that's going around. This happened last pg too. I am experiencing large amounts of creamy/clumpy cm... never had this before. It started yesterday and has increased this morning. I had a weird pain yesterday for hours on end but it was more in the hip than the abdo and had mood swings. Had extreme fatigue last night - went to bed at 7.30 to watch tv & missed everything that I meant to watch. Not going in to work today as just don't feel up to it.
to you. And you are not being whingey - I have those same thoughts too. Everywhere I look there are pg women, and I think why did they get to keep their babies when both of mine died? It should be the easiest thing in the world, yet for some of us it just doesn't work out that way. It really is so unfair.
as for all the preggo women, everytime I go out I see hundreds of them (well maybe not quite that many LOL) 
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