Claire & Pash - CONGRATULATIONS!!! That is such wonderful news for you both. Sending you lots of sticky vibes, and hope that the m/s is easy on you!
Satya - Sorry that you are feeling down about the BFN, I'll keep my fingers crossed for you and hope that and BFP is right around the corner.
Salt - Waiting for O truly sucks does't it? Well waiting for anything actually sucks, and unfortunately that seems to be all we do whilst TTC... I hate it!
Bun - So sorry to hear that you are feeling so stressed! It's completely understandable, you have been through so much lately. I hope that things start to get easier for you soon. I'll keep my fingers crossed for a BFP followed of course by a healthy stress free pregnancy and a beautiful healthy baby at the end of it.
Big hi to all the newbies in here, sorry I have not welcomed you sooner, it's been so busy in here and I have really lost track! Also a big hi to everyone I've missed.
Well, I'm CD12 and waiting for O to arrive. Have been pretty quiet lately as the last cycle really messed with my head. I just feel completely over the whole TTC thing. I'm still temping and we will try again this cycle, but just feel like it's never going to happen for me. It's now been a year of trying for us and I'm about to turn another year older which is really making me re-evaluate my life. I realise that the one thing I really want, is the one thing I can't seem to control. I just want to be a mum, but it seems that for the moment life has other plans for me. Anyhow, I'm trying really hard to pull myself out of this low, but as I'm sure you all know, its not always that easy.
Well, I'll stop moaning now! Hope everyone is well.
Thanks for all the support (and education) along the way. I was having such a tough time after my D&C that I was really worried about my sanity (part joke, part true). I don't know where I would've been without BB & all you lovely ladies.
And thanks for all the congrats, well wishes & various types of dust! right back
I am hugely releived, but I guess we're not out of the woods yet. But I'm going to try not to worry, cos there's no way to know that everything is on track. Last time my HCG was fine, BTs were all good, but there was no heartbeat. So can't really tell whats going to happen, so I am going to try to assume that nothing bad is going to happen.
DH is the opposite though. He had prepared himself for a BFN, so much that he still doesn't beleive that we are pg. Doesn't want to plan for anything or change our lives. Which we have to do, cos we've got to book tickets to Oz, give notice at work & organise a move. I think he was hurt by the m/c more than I realised.
Lee - Its great that you're feeling positive & relaxed. Its a good way to be. I tested at 16DPO. Rachael - LOL! It was my first neurotic TWW too! I didn't even know what a TWW was before! Salt - How are you doing? You're almost at the fun part of the cycle. Clairabel - I've got to admit, I'd calculated the EDD before I'd even tested I was dreaming that much. I feel so lucky to get the BFP. Satya - How are you doing? Are you still about or on hols? DH accuses me of being addicted to BB as well (and I think he might be right). But ppl who are going through the same thing are so much more understanding & supportive than even the closest well-meaning friend. Bun - Its a pity you're being forced into finding out, esp when you were in such a good frame of mind. Good luck for your HPT.
Your trip sounds fantastic, and you really deserve a break (the clinic can't exactly follow you to Spain with their needles can they). There's no reason you can't get upto baby making while travelling
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