Indy - I am so terribly sorry about your MC . That "3 MC before seeing an FS" is a bit of a myth. Perhaps it is true of a few bigtimers in the big city, but I would be very surprised if you got turned away if you had a referral from your GP. I think it is a very positive step forward and it will help you face the new year with an idea of the next step. Be good to yourself. Try and get some rest (I know that's hard). Maybe a quiet weekend in with some chick-flicks (I am sure DH will bend on this one, under the circumstances) and some chocolate. Take care xx

Jen - WOW - aren't you a busy little bee! What a champion effort - how would that school function without you? I think you should at least get a free slice of pizza from the 6th grade if you work a full day like that

Issy - totally relate to what you are going through. I guess all of us girls do. Everyone has their BTW we won't let you go anywhere because we need to see your ticker grow each week. You UTD ladies are our inspiration

Polly - Be angry. Be grumpy. And don't apologise. It's normal and it's better to feel than to be numb. It is hard to be back at Square 1 again. And I understand that BDing can lose some of its romance. I am glad it has brought you and your DH closer together. Just think how much love your next baby (because you WILL be PG again) will come from

Smi, HannahD and KrystieLove - thanks for your TTC tips. I have combined them together to increase my chances and the result is to have fun having a naughty romp on the beach while riding a bike Tickets anyone?

AFM - having my usual spotting problem. Happens every month after AF and way way before O (usually around Day 9, I O on Day 15). Does this happen to anyone else? It does not stop me from conceiving, but I wonder if it affects my egg quality. 2 x FS have been no help at all. Too hard basket