WOW thanks for all of your very helpfull advice and welcomes,
Shan and Kirsty I think you are right I think it would be great to know that I am in good health to ttc again I am a vegetarian so I always freak that I was just not looking after my self well enough and was just too unhealthy to carry a baby because my iron levels have been very very low in the past so I am determind to be healthy I am walking etc.. to lose a bit of weight and have lost around 12 kg which I am really happy about and am eating so much better not snacking on rubbish foods ( as much LOL ) and ice cream etc... ( my weakness that and chips hehehe ) but I am still eating what I want just adding in healthier stuff too and everything in moderation so fingers crossed that its working. so I think a dr's appointment is a good idea thanks girls
Lisa thanks I am always freaking out that I will miss out, I have heard heaps of great stuff about public too but I was one who missed out on the great stuff as with my 2 children I hated it I was stuck in room with 5 other women I had a midwife yell at me twice as she was so tired and just could not hack it anymore and was told off for getting in the wrong bed when the midwife said to me just go down to room ?? and hop in a bed I will be there in a tick OMG it was horrible, I just wanted to get out of there both times, with my first m/c when I went to the dr he said that I needed BT so I had one and it came back as my levels were 22 and had to be over 25 for him to confirm it so I ended up having about 6 bt's to check that I had indeed m/c but on one occasion I had to see a different dr and he said 'what are you worring about its way to early to know if your pg you are just having your period so just go home and relax' the other dr rang me to tell me to disregard this other dr's comments and come back in to be checked it was just so confusing, and with my m/c in April I was away at the time on a holiday so was treated in a private hospital but a country one and they had not dealt with this kind of thing for years, but were great and once got home I went to my dr who refered me to the womens clinic in the local public hospital who then lost my referal and then when I rang she said hang on and went looking she came back and asked me why I was ringing and when I m/c and how far along I was??? , when I told her she said OMG you had been put on a waiting list for a d&c and would be contacted in 11 or so weeks as we are just so busy get in your car and go to emergency NOW so we did and waitied 6 hours to find that I just had to go home again till the morning all just to confusing and to busy they are just flat out and I feel sorry for the dr's but I think that private is the way I want to be from now on, but as I said some of my best friends have been public and have loved it just depends on who you get and how busy they are I supose, I am glad to hear that things did not go that far for you and that you got the care you needed at that time GL and thankyou.
Tanya I am gad to hear that you got it all sorted that must have been a night of hell for you both sometimes these things are hard to get out and to actually say I hope you get a BFP next time you test
Naomi I know I said this to you in the phone this morning but I will say it again good luck and dont be to scared I am thinking of you.
Jayne Naomi is like my real sister and is a deffinately part of our family I am lucky to have her I have tried to form bonds with my SIL's on my dh side of the family only to have them thrown back in my face, Naomi is a very special and accepting young lady and I would do anything for herand I know my mum feels the same way too we are very lucky to have her in our lives. LMAO @ a licence to get naked hehehehehe
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