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Thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ March 2009

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    Hi Ladies,

    I just wanted to pop in here and spread some more

    I also wanted to let you know that I had my scan yesterday and I am over the moon to report that we are having a VERY active and healthy little BOY!



    Bubs is looking wonderful and was putting on quite a show for everyone. He was particularly active during the scan and kept kicking the scanning thing (dont know the technical name for it), he also kept flipping over so the sonographer took ages getting the shots he needed due to bubs being a little uncooperative. He was however, very cooperative in flashing his privates for all to see, I didnt need to be told what 'flavour' we were having as I could quite clearly see the little 'willy' sticking straight out between bubs legs...typical boy !

    Anyway, take care ladies,

    Issy

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    Hi everyone, Looks like alot of us are here for another cycle I just got a call from my dr re: BT and came back -ive didnt expect much but I needed a difinitive answer. I want AF to hurry up & come so I can have some closure to this awful month.

    I am so annoyed listening to peoples "im pregnant" stories and seeing girls with bellys or new borns and they look like they couldnt give a s***t about how lucky they are. It hurts to hear peoples news and joys that they are pregnant while Im feeling depressed, lonely & useless after a miscarriage

    That's my rant anyway. Anyone got tips on how to bring AF on???

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    issy-- CONGRATULATIONS on your little man! :itsaboy:

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    ISSY- Wow a healthy active little man That is wonderful news, keep us updated on how things are going.

    Coco- Rant away sweets, we all have had days where it seems which ever way we turn there are pregnant tummies and newborns. The best way I know to bring on AF is to either not want her to show up or plan a romantic night in . Lol!
    I hope things seem brighter soon


    AFM (again, you are probably all really sick of hearing from me) I successfully removed Lego from DS's nose without the need for medical assistance!

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    RhiChi~Hello sweetie

    Issy~ huge congrats on having a boy and such a great scan...

    Shortcake~good luck at the doc's today...

    Coco~sorry this cycle didnt end in bfp for I'm praying next month is it for you...

    Jen~

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    Angry Idiot!!!

    OH MY GOD I AM FUMING!!!

    My dr just called me and it went like this
    DR: "Eliza, I have your ultrasound report back and it does look like there's a baby there! You had an ultrasound a couple of days ago??"
    ME: "WHAT??"
    DR: "There is a baby there, you had your ultrasound a couple days ago didnt you?"
    ME: " I had one this morning? You have it back already?"
    DR: "Yeah....ohh no, sorry ive got the wrong persons name...I have someone elses here.. im sorry"
    ME: "Yeah" Hangs up....




    My Dr is normally so good! I am speechless!
    Just thought I would share that with you..

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    Issy - Congratulation on your little man Would have to be a boy putting on that display! Now mine however must be a girl, she won't show off anything!

    Jen - Still no decent pics, we we totally uncooperative again yesterday even worse than last time. I'm back again next Mon for another try so fingers crossed for then. Will keep you posted

    coco - Sorry this is coming from someone who is pg, but trust me when I say I DO understand you feelings I guess at least I do know how very lucky I am and I don't ever whinge about being pg....Don't worry about ranting here either. Here's heaps of AF vibes! And ETA, OMG at your doctor!!!

    MO3B - LOL at your Lego! So glad you got it out without assistance! We once had a corn kernel LOL so I know how you feel. DD actually snorted it out when asked to and it flew across the room at high speed it was the funniest thing I have ever seen!!! But at least we didn't need a doctor.

    everyone else, hope you are all well today!

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    hi everyone.. firstly. coco - i am sooo sorry to hear you doctor put you through that.. i would be soooo cranky too! Especially when you are having a bit of a bad day already... I know what you mean about people who don't even realise how special and lucky they are argh! thinking of you my dear xxx

    MO3B - glad to hear the leggo came out without no probs hehe. nice work with the persies lol... i hope your boys are all better x

    issy - congrats on your gorgeous little man sounds like your scan was fun hehe

    sally - wow you are one busy lady. I hope you make it through the week ok

    Rhichichi - i know what you mean with the going through the motions.. i hate it when they ask what we want and sometimes you do get to the point where you can just be like "hurry up and lets do this" (well, i do anyway). I will see how I go this cycle (as af has still not arrived) but i guess there is no harm in trying the maybe baby if af decides to be horrible and show up this month.. i will let you know by next week if thats ok
    I hope your appointments go well this week.

    Shortcake - i hope your appointment went well today too

    Jen - how are you going??? we want an AFM post from you

    and now... AFM :P - af has still not arrived... and I have been so good and not tested (i am a serial tester lol) I am trying to hold out till next saturday because if I go on my normal 35 day cycle that is when i am due.. although I am sure i o'd early this month.. so... yeah, who knows. I am still getting very very very light spotting and its not constant, only here and there, usually in the morning and thats it. I have also been getting headaches like i did last pregnancy - they feel soooo familiar to last time. I am that i get a sneaky bfp and that all this i am feeling isn't in my head.

    sorry to those who i have missed out on.. but thinking of you all.

    xxx
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    oh i forgot.... I got my test results back today from the swab that was taken last thursday afternoon... and it was all clear.

    so... now if we want to go any further with this and with the testing then we will have to go to sydney. I am temped to check with the specialist at the early pregnacy clinic to see if she can do any others here, just on the off chance that there are a few more that she can do to save us the trip and time off work etc etc..

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    Issy - Yay for your little boy!

    Coco - OMG - I can't believe your Dr made such a mistake. The 1st couple of cycles after a m/c are particularly hard as all you want to be is pg again (don't get me wrong it is still hard now but after losing your angel it is still so raw and you need something positive to focus on and look forward to). I really hope you don't have to wait to long to see those 2 lines

    MO3B - Good work on removing the leggo! I hope you don't end up catching the dreaded gastro, try catching that egg instead

    sally - Thanks for that. I never thought of licking the glass, hmmm maybe I should try using it again this month?

    Jen - Yes, how are you doing? I've had words to you about this before

    Rhi - Hope you fall pg this cycle and don't have to use the herbs

    Hannah - How are you feeling today sweetie?

    Megsmum - It must be a girl if she is being shy about it! Will give you sticky vibes for both to cover all bases.

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    boble - this is your cycle. Glad to hear your test results came back clear but I also know you probably want answers. I hope you don't have to go to Sydney for more tests and you get your BFP before it gets to that.

    AFM - Had another meltdown tonight (poor DH). They seem to be becoming more and more frequent at the moment. I am really stressed at work so I don't think that is helping either. I just feel really sad and sometimes wonder if I will ever see those 2 lines we all so desperately want. I know I have so much to be thankful for and so many people go through worse but I can't seem to make myself feel any better at the moment. I am so lucky I have DH, he has been wonderful dealing with my mood swings and giving me lots of cuddles

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    coco--Oh, honey, I would be fuming after that phone call, too, if I were you! What the hell kind of freakin' idiot mixes up his patient's names? I'm so sorry, not that it helps much! Did have to LOL at MO3B's answer as to how to bring on AF... it's really true! Sending you some AF vibes to get things moving along!



    MO3B--Gotta love those tiny little legos! I wonder what DS's inspiration was for that one?.... hmmm, I wonder if this will fit in my nose? Are the boys back to school today? You sound like you could use a vacation after your last couple days! Oh, btw, we could NEVER get sick of hearing from you!



    Toccara--



    megsmum--Sounds like you have a modest little princess in there! Hope she's a little more cooperative on Monday!



    boble--Sending lots of vibes your way! Glad to hear your swab results came back clear! Fingers crossed for a sneaky BFP!



    Mel--I'm sorry to hear about your meltdown Feeling sad and stressed out makes us feel so flat and defeated... I really hope today is a better day for you! I'm grateful that you have such a supportive DH to give you those extra cuddles! Keep that chin up!



    Shortcake--Glad you got in for an earlier appt! Keep us posted on how things went! *hugs*



    Rhi & Sally-- I'm so sorry, but I'll have to finish yours later.... have to leave in 20 mins to get DS to school, and neither one of us are even dressed yet! Oops--it's all bb's fault! lol.... Will also do AFM when I get back!

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    Issy - CONGRATULATIONS on your little BOY Sounds like such fun at that ultrasound. Imagine how much fun he will be when he arrives.

    Coco - I'm sorry that your Dr did that to you. How awful. I'd be totally fuming as well.

    Mel - I know exactly where you are coming from. I know that I have my two beautiful boys, but that longing hasn't gone away in over ten years to add to my family. You have such a wonderful husband that sounds so supportive of you.

    Now that my cakes all gone - who's the next cook?

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    Hi all,
    Woiw , I have some serious catching up to do lol
    Well still no AF but I got a ticker cause I think i may have ovulated and of course we used protection then got told the day after o that we didn't need to worry about it and should have been trying this cycle..arrrgghh.
    I am looking into IVF at the moment as my time bomb of August is stressing me out big time.. feeling very pressured at the moment.
    Bought a Kia Grand Carnival aka the bus...
    Send me some more AF vibes please as I have a brandnew packet of clomid just waiting to be opend

    Gald to see everyones doing ok.. Big :hugs: to thoe who are needing them at eh moment ... I undterstand .. have those days myself.
    Em

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    Good morning ladies,

    Day ended up being Manic!! Left the house at 6:50am didn't get home till just after 7pm!! It's not right!!
    but acupunture was good, another tonight then on to weekly.
    It probably makes me sound silly but I didn't know to look at the discarge and the temp. things and people keep asking and I can't answer, I haven't really checked...

    Mrzbaby - Yeah for the car!! Hope your keen on the new car smell! Could be just the thing you needed!!!

    Issy - Wonderful news. CONGRATULATIONS!!

    Coco- That is awful. I can't even want to imagine how that would of made you feel. I'd be so so so angry.

    Jen - GOod luck with your morning!!

    Mel - thats what they are there for! My dh is so good at coping the blow with hie puppy dog eyes desperately trying to figure out what the (normally NOTHing) trigger was so he can help..... Thats love for you!


    Boble - good luck, with what has happened I would always check out EVERY otpion and think you should too if you want!

    Hope everyone has a great day!!

    xxoo

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    Hi all

    Thanks for the support, I am feeling better today but going to see him today, I didnt go to work last night I was in too much of a worked up state. Ive decided to go away to my grandparents for a few days if I can get 2 days I need off work nxt week, short notice but Im casual so shouldnt be an issue..I just need to not be here at the moment. DH isnt even coming with me, just want to be alone.

    MrsBaby As soon as she comes to me (which i think is going to be today) Ill send her over! I went for a walk hoping to bring it on and It did a little bit in my CM so maybe go for a walk/run and jiggle it around a bit


    Appologies for no personals right now, I just got up and (decaf!!) coffee is calling my name..

    Toodloo and have a great day xx

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    Hello everyone... geeezzzzze you miss heaps when you don't check in for a day!

    Coco Dam stupid Dr!!! I would be like and I totally know what you mean about seeing the pregnant mums and bubs everywhere.... I've only been back at work for 1.5 days and I have had 6 people ask me when my announcement will be and another say "ohhhh, you will be a mum soon, wont you???" OMG JUST GO AWAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Have they no compassion!!! I will tell people I am having a baby when I am GOD DAM HAVING A BABY..... Like when I am about 20 weeks or something and know I am 'safe' ... DH and I were so happy we had only one person (a care giver) to tell that we lost the baby, I feel for anyone who has a whole list to tell. I was so tempted though, thinking oh I am 10 weeks now and than oh I'm 11 weeks, nothing will happen! Glad I didn't,.... so next time around I wont be telling until I have to... Not that there is anything wrong with telling people and nothing wrong with telling people about a MC wither but 'I' don't want to have to deal with everyone else, I have had enough worry with just me and DH

    AHHHHHHHHHHHH thanks for the rant!

    Not sure who was talking about the OPK sticks... I got mine from ebay and they are not very expensive at all... Plus they work good for me

    My stomach is still sore plus I'm pretty much having a period... Hope that stops soon too, perhaps I will be on the mend from Sat... Hubby will be away for 4 nights over the weekend and I will miss him like crazy...

    Hope everyones day is better than mine!

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    Hello everyone,

    I've been sitting here reading and catching up going "fantastic!" "oh, he didn't do that?!", "I know what you mean" "oh, poor you" "projectile corn is impressive"!!! I'm sorry for not being specific with persies. Our small boy is rampaging today so I'm quickly typing before lunch and sleep time.

    We're back in the TWW again. To while away the time (???!!!!!!) we have bought a new house, and will move in early May. More space inside, more space outside, and near-ish to good kinder and school. Fingers crossed the $$ stretch far enough for a water tank, vegie patch and a few chooks. Now, how to pack with a rampaging toddler?! I have mentioned before that we were going with the low-key approach to TTC this month, and whilst we haven't been completely focussed on BD'ing, we have been pretty busy with other things!!

    It's funny, now I've stopped today (no work, house purchase definitely on) that damn nagging emptiness is persisting. We're supposed to be focussing on a new person making their presense felt (we would be 19 weeks now), instead we're making a life changing turn because I won't be going on maternity leave in the middle of the year, and we'll be able to count on my income at least until September-October (even if this is the magical cycle). What an ungrateful cow I sound like!! I have so many wonderful things, and I'm so terrible because I still want more. I sound so awful and self-indulgent.

    Yeah, so this isn't a fantastic post. Sorry.

    Thinking of you all. Take care,
    M

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