Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ May 08 #4

[Heaven]

Abbey- it's so annoying when one of u isn't in the mood around O time.
jenushka- I used pre-seed the cycle before and the cycle I got my bfp. We had been trying for 8 months so I think it helped!! I did have ewcm but used it anyway coz I thought it might help.
Krystie- Yeah, I think I ovulated Monday but now I'm not sure!! My temps haven't gone up as high as they usually do?? I'm confused. Just had a look at ur chart and ur temps didn't go real high straight away either, is that what urs usually do? Hmm...well I have no idea, FF has given me a dotted coverline anyway.
jen- jeez, u r a legend for that list!
megsmum- at least it's good you're getting things sorted and hopefully it won't be too much longer before that bfp, I hope you don't have to take clomid again. You never know this might be the month, the month I got my bfp was the month I was least hopeful, lol.
to everyone else!!

Have a good day everyone!

[Mel A]

Well I havn't left, I'm still stalking you all.
Got a little freaked out this morining as I have to go to NZ. Now this isn't as bad as going to Indonesia, (where the last M/C was initiated, by some stupid indonesian virus that caused huge temps (39.5) and gastro)
So although NZ is a lovly place I'm terrified of getting on that plane. I know it's stupid as I'm in sydney so had to get on a plane on Monday night. but the Over Seas thing is scary.

Hello to everyone.......

[bettyboop]

mel A- what part of NZ, bit colder than AUS , we had a great frost last night -3.

[~ Mylitta ~]

SaraJane - I've found that when I ovulate from my left ovary my temp tends to creep up slower than when I ovulate from my right. My acupuncturist told me that one ovary can be a bit lazier than the other when it comes to quickly producing progesterone, so not too worry. I often don't see my temperature go above the coverline until 4DPO. That's what I am today and it's when I've had my first real temp increase I hope yours comes tomorrow!! FF has only given me dotted lines too, but any lines are good in my book

[Canary]

Hi girls

Jen, you are amazing. Thank you for that long, long list of us all. It is nice to see that there are lots of BFPs at the top - room for a few more, I think.

I am just dropping in to let you know that I have been lurking to find out how you are all doing, sending lots of babydust and positive vibe your ways! I have now joined in on the PAML thread and wont be bothering you so much over here. Thank you all for so much support over the last few months- it has been so helpful and has really kept me sane!

I'll drop in from time to time, but I expect to see you all in PAML really soon.

[pbstar]

morning girls

jodsan- i guess it is a little colder this time of year so perhaps that has something to do with it, i think i do need to get rid of this thermometer and just relax though. DH confiscated it a few months ago because i got too obsessive and now i managed to get it back and its doing my head in again. think i will just keep BDing every second day all month and then i know i'm covered! will try to time it for 5th june too, just in case

jen- thanks for the i feel like a bit of a sook because you have had this confusion about o this cycle too but you have handled a lot better than i am. anyway i am going to take a leaf out of your book and go with the flow...whatever will be will be hey?

hope everyone else is well and enjoying all the BDing that is going on!

xo

[smilanatu]

Just a quick hello ladies as usual my desk is piled high! I am lurking and reading though...

AJC...keep the positive attitude!

jen *wavin atcha*

pbstar...canary...hey gurlies!

AFM...waitin to O 2morro...hopin to catch that egg!!! I'm havin some pain on the right side this afternoon...we been bding every night since Saturday...they say practice makes perfect




:goodluck2: and lots of

[Heaven]

Yay!!!! I just found a house to move to!!!! We already put the application in but couldn't see it until the ppl moved out but I liked it and she said we'd already been approved!! Phew. It's really nice and cheaper than other one's I've looked at. All the ones I've looked at so far are so overpriced and not as good as where we're living now and I couldn't see how I could pay more than I am now for a way worse place. So I got a better one for surprisingly 'cheap'!! Don't know how it wasn't snapped up sooner, I hope I didn't miss something wrong with it!! rofl. DH hasn't seen it so I hope I have made a good decision. The only thing is at the back fence there's a kind of busy road, I hope it's not too noisy. So now I have to start some serious packing b/c we have to move out next weekend!!

ETA- Krystie, that is so weird you say that coz this time I had O pains from my left side which is different coz I've only ever felt them from the right side before so maybe that was it??

[mollycat]

Hi all.

I just got back from the gyno's and was given the results of my day 21 bt. Turns out i haven't O this month, yet, although I have pains now in my left side so hopefully this is it, just a tad late. Would work out with the bleeding I had a fortnight ago, which he said was breakthrough bleeding. So now i'm waiting to O to find out where from here. He's still happy for me to stay with the same dose of tamoxifen if AF ever turns up.

SaraJane - congrats on finding a house, That was always the worst job, packing up, moving, cleaning and unpacking.

Mel A - hope you have a lovely time in NZ, all will go well.

Extension Update - I have the tiler here at the moment, and the floor is half done, the plumbers dropped off all their bits this morning and they'll be back in tomorrow. So hopefully if we finish painting before the weekend we can install the kitchen and the plumber and electrician can finish up on Monday, nearly finished YAY. Looks so big at the moment (only cause it's empty)

[Vanaithi]

Hi ladies!

a quick one today... jen: i believe it's my cd9? its on my ff. its predicted that i will o next tuesday. so dh & i have bn bd every 2 days since monday just in case my cycles are weird & i o early. next time to dtd is tomorrow night. i had some light pains in my ovaries i think ovulation pains??? my af was very short this time. only 4 days in total i think. started wed last with some spotting. thurs it was heavy, fri it was heavy - medium & satday it was light to spotting & sunday it was finishing off with spotting i think. so that means my first af was only for 2 or 3 days???

anyways, thats all for now.

GOODLUCK & GOOD BDING TO ALL!:goodluck2:

[AJC]

Hiya everyone

and for everyone!

Well after my mucous yesterday I decided to call ob to tell them, the lady there was really good and squeezed me in this morn. I am so glad I did, firstly ob was so excited for us which was lovely. I really feel he genuinely cares about his patients so for the first time I actually felt excited and like 'this is really going to happen this time'. We went through my bt results from last week and spoke about the mucous. He said the only thing that bothers him about it is that it worries me. Phew - first big sigh of relief. Then he said we'd do a scan just to check how things are progressing, found a little yolk sac measuring to my dates exactly. All looked really healthy so.... so far so good - second big sigh of relief. He sent me for another beta hcg just to be thorough but he said he was really happy with how things are going. I feel soooooo relieved. I will sleep so much better tonight. Was talking to my belly last night so perhaps bubba is a good boy/girl and is listening to Mummy and knows how much we can't wait to have him/her. (I did also mention something about a trip to Disneyland when they're old enough so perhaps they've got the travel gene already & it's a good incentive to grow big and strong).

Still not leaving ya'll yet..... still a long way to go. Thanks heaps everyone for all your support.

Seems to be alot of bd going on lately - good luck everyone. :goodluck2:

Mel - I honestly wouldn't be worried about going to NZ (however I can relate to this anxiety in early pg so I guess it's easy for me to say). But.... Firstly it's a short flight so not too many hours in the air. Secondly, the hygiene standards over there are just as good as ours. I love NZ it's one of my fav places. Where abouts exactly are you going to?

sorry this post is mostly all about me - will bbl for more personals.